My mom has been living with us for three months since dad died and my husband has been so patient but I can see him getting worn down and mom keeps asking if she's overstaying and none of us knows what we actually need. We're all just trying to be considerate and it's making everything harder.
More people experience this than they realize.
The architecture of care becomes unclear when grief reshapes a household and everyone's needs remain unspoken.
“Where Are You with Love in old age?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.