My mom is declining and my sister and I have completely different ideas about what caring for her looks like - I want to keep her at home, she wants assisted living, and Mom just says whatever she thinks we want to hear. We're fighting about her care but really we're fighting about what love looks like when someone is slipping away.
More people experience this than they realize.
Different expressions of love can feel like betrayals when stakes are highest.
“Where Are You with Love & Disability?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.