My partner and I both have ADHD but our brains work so differently — they need constant stimulation and I need deep quiet to function — and we've stopped talking about it because every conversation feels like we're asking the other person to be someone they're not. We love each other but we're starting to feel like we're incompatible in ways that matter.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are discovering that their different neurological needs create seemingly irreconcilable conflicts in how they experience love and shared space.
“Where Are You with Love & Neurodivergence?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.