Periagoge
Scenario

When neurodivergent couples have conflicting sensory and attention needs

My partner and I both have ADHD but our brains work so differently — they need constant stimulation and I need deep quiet to function — and we've stopped talking about it because every conversation feels like we're asking the other person to be someone they're not. We love each other but we're starting to feel like we're incompatible in ways that matter.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that their different neurological needs create seemingly irreconcilable conflicts in how they experience love and shared space.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love & Neurodivergence?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.