Periagoge
Scenario

When couples can't agree on timing for major life decisions

My partner and I both want kids but we keep having the same circular conversation where I want to start trying now and they want to wait until we're more financially stable, and underneath it feels like we're arguing about completely different things — security versus time, planning versus trust — and neither of us is wrong.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people can share the same dream while being pulled by incompatible truths about when and how to pursue it.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Dating Across Cultures and Traditions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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