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When couples can't agree on timing for major life decisions

My partner and I both want kids but we keep having the same circular conversation where I want to start trying now and they want to wait until we're more financially stable, and underneath it feels like we're arguing about completely different things — security versus time, planning versus trust — and neither of us is wrong.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people can share the same dream while being pulled by incompatible truths about when and how to pursue it.

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