My partner and I both want kids but we've realized we have completely different ideas about parenting, money, and what our lives would look like and every time we try to talk about it we end up in this weird place where we're both trying to be supportive but secretly terrified. Neither of us knows how to say 'what if we can't figure this out?'
More people experience this than they realize.
You're both trying to bridge a gap that might be too wide while pretending you're not scared it might be.
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