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When couples get stuck in sexual standoffs and can't restart intimacy

My partner and I both want to feel closer physically but we've fallen into this pattern where we're both waiting for the other person to initiate and now months have passed and neither of us knows how to break the silence without making it weird.

Mira
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The very act of trying to protect each other from rejection has created the distance you both fear.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sexual intimacy and its relationship to love?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.