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When couples become efficient roommates instead of partners

My partner and I both work demanding jobs and we've fallen into this efficient roommate dynamic where we coordinate schedules and split chores but rarely actually connect. We're good at managing our life together but I'm not sure we're actually living it together anymore.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The machinery of shared life can eclipse the intimacy it was meant to protect.

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