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When ex-partners have to live together during heartbreak recovery

My partner and I broke up six months ago but we're still living together until our lease ends in three months and we keep having these moments where we almost fall back into old patterns and I don't know if we're helping each other heal or just prolonging the hurt. We both know we're not getting back together but we also can't seem to figure out how to be kind to each other without it feeling like we're playing house.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The liminal space between love and letting go becomes a shared purgatory when practical circumstances force continued intimacy.

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