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When couples rely too heavily on digital communication routines

My partner and I have been doing long-distance for two years and we've gotten so good at our scheduled video calls and daily check-ins that we've stopped having spontaneous conversations, and now when we're finally in the same room it feels like we're still performing our relationship instead of living it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The scaffolding that sustained love across distance has become a cage that constrains intimacy when proximity returns.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love and technology — digital relationships?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.