My partner and I have been fostering kids for three years and we just lost a placement that we thought might become permanent. We're both heartbroken but processing it completely differently — they want to take a break, I want to open our home again immediately. Our grief is pulling us in opposite directions.
More people experience this than they realize.
The vulnerability required for radical hospitality can leave partners exposed to incompatible forms of heartbreak.
“Where Are You with Ubuntu love — the communal dimension?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.