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When polyamorous couples feel disconnected despite loving ethically

My partner and I have been poly for three years but lately when they come home from dates I feel this weird mix of compersion and grief that I can't name, and they've started staying out later because they can sense something's off but we're both too scared to say what's really happening.

Mira
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The success of ethical non-monogamy requires navigating unnamed emotional territories that monogamous relationship models never prepared you for.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Polyamory & Non-Monogamy?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.