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Scenario

When couples disagree about how to build chosen family

My partner and I have been talking about starting a chosen family with our closest friends but we keep realizing we have completely different ideas about what that means — they want something structured with shared responsibilities and I want something organic that just happens naturally. We both want deeper community but we're stuck because neither of us wants to compromise on something this important.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who share the same longing are discovering their visions for fulfilling it are fundamentally incompatible.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Chosen Family?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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