My partner and I have been talking about starting a chosen family with our closest friends but we keep realizing we have completely different ideas about what that means — they want something structured with shared responsibilities and I want something organic that just happens naturally. We both want deeper community but we're stuck because neither of us wants to compromise on something this important.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who share the same longing are discovering their visions for fulfilling it are fundamentally incompatible.
“Where Are You with Chosen Family?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.