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When couples love deeply but can't stop fighting about the same issues

My partner and I have been together for six years and we love each other deeply but we fight about the same things over and over — money, his family, how we spend time — and I'm starting to wonder if love is supposed to be this hard or if we're just bad at it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

They're discovering that love alone doesn't resolve fundamental differences in values and communication patterns.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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