My partner and I have been together for three years and we love each other deeply but we've realized we want completely different things from sex and intimacy and every conversation about it feels like we're speaking different languages. We keep trying to compromise but it's starting to feel like we're both just performing versions of ourselves that don't actually exist.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who genuinely love each other are discovering that their core needs for intimacy may be irreconcilable, forcing them to question whether love alone is enough.
“Where Are You with The examined love life — what it means to love well?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.