My partner and I have been together for three years and we love each other deeply, but we fight about the same things over and over — money, family boundaries, how we handle stress — and I'm starting to wonder if love is supposed to be this hard or if we're just not compatible in ways that matter.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're discovering that love and compatibility exist on different planes, and wondering whether persistent conflict signals deeper incompatibility or simply the normal friction of two people learning to build something together.
“Where Are You with Conflict in love — how every tradition addresses it?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.