My partner and I have been together for twelve years and we say 'I love you' every day but last night we both admitted we don't know what we actually mean by it anymore. We're not unhappy, but we realized we might be loving each other out of habit rather than choice and we don't know how to figure out the difference.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are discovering that the words and gestures of love may have become divorced from their deeper meaning.
“Where Are You with What love ultimately is — the examined final question?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.