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Scenario

When couples question what love actually means after years together

My partner and I have been together for twelve years and we say 'I love you' every day but last night we both admitted we don't know what we actually mean by it anymore. We're not unhappy, but we realized we might be loving each other out of habit rather than choice and we don't know how to figure out the difference.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that the words and gestures of love may have become divorced from their deeper meaning.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What love ultimately is — the examined final question?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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