My partner and I have been together six years and we're good at being comfortable but terrible at being intentional about where we're going together. We drift through months without talking about what we actually want to build, and I'm realizing our relationship is happening to us instead of us happening to it.
More people experience this than they realize.
They have mistaken comfort for connection and passivity for peace.
“Where Are You with The examined relationship — building intentionally?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.