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Scenario

When couples struggle with mismatched libidos and scheduling intimacy backfires

My partner and I have completely different sex drives and we've tried scheduling intimacy but now it feels like a chore for both of us and we don't know how to find our way back to genuine desire. We love each other but the pressure and avoidance cycle is killing something between us.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Attempting to solve desire discrepancy through structure has stripped away the very spontaneity and authenticity that makes intimacy meaningful.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sexual Desire and Sexuality in Relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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