My partner and I have completely different sex drives and we've tried scheduling intimacy but now it feels like a chore for both of us and we don't know how to find our way back to genuine desire. We love each other but the pressure and avoidance cycle is killing something between us.
More people experience this than they realize.
Attempting to solve desire discrepancy through structure has stripped away the very spontaneity and authenticity that makes intimacy meaningful.
“Where Are You with Sexual Desire and Sexuality in Relationship?”
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