Periagoge
Scenario

When couples disagree about marriage timeline and readiness

My partner and I keep having the same fight about getting married — I'm ready to propose but they say they need more time to 'be sure,' and I'm starting to wonder if what feels like patience is actually me avoiding the reality that we want different things from commitment itself.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering they may have fundamentally different relationships to commitment as a concept and practice.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Commitment — what it means and what it costs?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.