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When couples disagree about marriage timeline and readiness

My partner and I keep having the same fight about getting married — I'm ready to propose but they say they need more time to 'be sure,' and I'm starting to wonder if what feels like patience is actually me avoiding the reality that we want different things from commitment itself.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering they may have fundamentally different relationships to commitment as a concept and practice.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Commitment — what it means and what it costs?”

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