My partner and I keep having the same fight where they say I pull away whenever things get serious, and I say they get clingy and demanding, but we both know we're just playing out the same patterns we learned in past relationships. We're tired of being trapped by our own attachment styles but don't know how to actually change the dynamic between us.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people see their relational patterns clearly but remain stuck in the very dynamics they wish to transcend.
“Where Are You with Attachment style in choosing partners?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.