My partner and I keep saying we want to be more intentional about how we build our relationship but every time we try to have those deeper conversations, one of us gets defensive or we fall back into our old patterns of just reacting instead of responding. We both want this but we don't know how to actually practice it together.
More people experience this than they realize.
The gap between wanting conscious relationship and knowing how to embody it together reveals how difficult it is to change relational patterns even when both people are committed.
“Where Are You with The examined relationship — building intentionally?”
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