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Scenario

When couples grieve the same loss but discover different truths about what matters

My partner and I lost our best friend six months ago and we've discovered we grieve completely differently — they want to honor his memory by living exactly how he would have wanted, while I find myself questioning everything we used to care about together. We're starting to feel like strangers who happen to share the same loss.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Shared grief is revealing fundamental differences in how you each understand what makes life meaningful.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What grief reveals about what matters?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.