My partner and I met on dating apps after both being single for years, and we keep having this unspoken thing where we both know how hard it was out there but we're afraid talking about it will somehow jinx what we have now. We're both still processing what it means to not be searching anymore, but we do it separately.
More people experience this than they realize.
The very experiences that shaped each person's capacity for love become too precious or frightening to examine together.
“Where Are You with Single and Searching?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.