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Scenario

When couples lose meaning in saying 'I love you'

My partner and I say 'I love you' every day but we've both started saying it like we're checking a box, and when I try to bring up that it feels hollow now, they get defensive and say I'm overthinking everything. We're stuck between fake intimacy and fighting about why intimacy feels fake.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The very expressions meant to sustain love have become empty rituals, and attempts to restore authenticity feel like attacks on the relationship itself.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Communication in love?”

Peri

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