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Scenario

When couples lose connection during fertility struggles

My partner and I used to dream together about having kids someday, but now that we're actually trying, the process has become clinical and stressful and we've stopped talking about the dreams — just the logistics and the disappointments.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The mechanics of trying can eclipse the meaning of why you began, leaving two people lonely in their shared longing.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Emotional Labor in Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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