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When couples lose their written intimacy after moving in together

My partner and I used to write love letters to each other constantly when we were long-distance, but now that we live together we've stopped writing entirely and I miss that intimacy but don't know how to ask for it without sounding like I'm criticizing our current relationship. We both keep our old letters in a box but never talk about them anymore.

Mira
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The transition from written to spoken love has left something essential unexpressed between you.

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