My partner and I volunteer at the same food bank and lately we've been getting into these weird competitive dynamics about who's doing more or caring better, and it's making something we used to love doing together feel poisoned.
More people experience this than they realize.
Shared service is becoming a battleground where love expresses as rivalry rather than collaboration.
“Where Are You with Ubuntu love — the communal dimension?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.