My partner keeps reassuring me that I'm 'enough' but I can tell they're frustrated when I need that reassurance, and now I'm second-guessing whether asking for support makes me clingy or whether they're just not equipped to give it. We're both trying to love each other well but I think my self-doubt is exhausting us both.
More people experience this than they realize.
The very act of seeking reassurance about your worth is creating a dynamic that undermines the worth you're seeking to establish.
“Where Are You with Self-Worth in Relationship Context?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.