My partner makes significantly more money than me and we've fallen into this pattern where they make most of the big decisions because they pay for most things, but we both pretend it's equal and I'm starting to resent the whole charade.
More people experience this than they realize.
Financial inequality has quietly restructured the relationship's decision-making in ways that neither person can openly acknowledge.
“Where Are You with Love and power dynamics?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.