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Scenario

When couples disagree about which family to prioritize

My partner wants us to move closer to his aging parents so we can help more, but that would mean leaving my sister who's been my anchor since our mom died, and we keep having the same circular conversation about whose family needs should come first.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that love requires choices about competing loyalties, and each choice reshapes the very relationships it aims to protect.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Family Claims on Love and Partnership?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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