Periagoge
Scenario

When friends struggle with their loved one's relationship choices

My roommate and closest friend has been dating someone I really don't like, and I can see how they're changing in ways that worry me. I don't know how to express my concerns without seeming controlling or risking our friendship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Someone is watching a person they care about make choices that feel harmful, caught between speaking truth and respecting autonomy.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Arranged Marriage and Family-Mediated Partnership?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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