My siblings and I inherited our grandmother's house and we all want to keep it in the family, but we have completely different visions — one wants to rent it to fund college savings, another wants extended family to live there rent-free, I want to turn it into a community space. We're all honoring her memory differently and it's tearing us apart.
More people experience this than they realize.
Grief and gratitude can manifest as irreconcilable visions of how to honor what we've been given.
“Where Are You with Ubuntu love — the communal dimension?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.