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Scenario

When siblings interpret their parents' relationship differently

My sister and I are both in serious relationships now and we're realizing we learned completely different lessons from watching our parents' marriage fall apart. She thinks I'm too guarded and I think she's repeating Mom's mistakes, but we've never actually talked about what we each saw or how it's affecting our choices now.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The same foundational experience has created opposing strategies for love, creating distance where there could be understanding.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Your Parents' Relationship and How It Shaped Yours?”

Peri

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