My sister and I are both trying to figure out how to care for our mom who's getting more confused, but we have completely different ideas about what help looks like and we keep making decisions that undermine each other. We love her fiercely but we're starting to resent each other and I think mom can feel the tension between us.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love for the same person can create competing visions of care that fracture the very support system it aims to build.
“Where Are You with Chemistry vs. compatibility?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.