My sister and I are both trying to get our brother to leave his partner who we can see is hurting him, but we keep undermining each other — she wants to be direct and I think that will push him away, and now he's pulling back from both of us. We love him so much but we can't figure out how to show up for him in a way that actually helps instead of making him feel more alone.
More people experience this than they realize.
Different approaches to love can create the very isolation you're trying to prevent.
“Where Are You with Leaving a difficult relationship?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.