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Scenario

When siblings disagree about which family memories matter after loss

My sister and I are cleaning out our childhood home after Dad's death and we keep fighting about what to keep, but really we're fighting about which version of our family story matters most. She wants to preserve everything that shows how happy we were; I want to acknowledge the harder truths that his death is making me finally see.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Grief is forcing you to negotiate whose truth about your shared history gets to matter most.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What grief reveals about what matters?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.