My sister and I are co-executors of our father's estate and every decision turns into a power struggle even though we both want to honor his wishes. We're letting legal logistics poison what should be a sacred process of saying goodbye.
More people experience this than they realize.
Grief and control can become entangled in ways that dishonor both the deceased and the relationship between survivors.
“Where Are You with Parent–Child Love?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.