My sister and I both grew up in the same chaotic household but we've gone completely opposite directions in relationships - she only dates people who need rescuing and I only date people who keep me at arm's length. We're starting to see how our family patterns shaped us but we don't know how to support each other in choosing differently.
More people experience this than they realize.
Shared origins create different adaptive strategies that siblings must navigate together while honoring both protection and growth.
“Where Are You with Attachment style in choosing partners?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.