My sister and I both promised our dad we'd take care of mom after he died, but she moved across the country two months later and now I'm handling everything alone while she sends money and acts like that's the same thing, and family gatherings have become tense with unspoken resentment.
More people experience this than they realize.
Shared promises can fracture under the weight of different circumstances and interpretations of fidelity.
“Where Are You with Trust and Fidelity?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.