My sister and I both promised our mom we'd care for dad together but we have completely different ideas about what that looks like and every conversation about it turns into relitigating our childhood. We love him but we're failing him because we can't get past our own stuff.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who share history are discovering that love alone doesn't resolve the deep patterns that keep them from truly collaborating.
“Where Are You with Divorce and Its Emotional Aftermath?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.