My sister and I both struggle with feeling worthy of good things, and when something good happens to one of us we end up in this weird place where we're happy for each other but also somehow competing over who deserves it less.
More people experience this than they realize.
Siblings are unconsciously reinforcing each other's unworthiness by turning self-deprecation into a form of connection and competition.
“Where Are You with Self-love — what it actually means?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.