My sister and I have been co-caring for our elderly father, but she's been making medical decisions without including me and then getting defensive when I ask about them, and I don't know if this is about control or grief or just different ideas about what dad needs.
More people experience this than they realize.
Shared responsibility for vulnerable family members can expose different values about autonomy, inclusion, and protection that challenge sibling relationships.
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