My sister and I have been planning our mom's memorial service together and we keep getting into fights about details that don't actually matter — the flowers, the music, who speaks when. I think we're both just looking for ways to control something when everything feels out of control.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're both trying to honor the same love through rituals that feel inadequate to the magnitude of your loss.
“Where Are You with Patterns in who we love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.