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Scenario

When siblings clash while planning memorials

My sister and I have been planning our mother's memorial service and we keep fighting about what she would have wanted because we both loved her so much but in completely different ways. Every decision feels like we're competing over who knew her better, who grieved her right, who deserves to be the one who honors her memory.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Grief can turn shared love into a contest over who has the right to mourn.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and love — what they share?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.