My sister and I have been planning our mother's memorial service and we keep fighting about what she would have wanted because we both loved her so much but in completely different ways. Every decision feels like we're competing over who knew her better, who grieved her right, who deserves to be the one who honors her memory.
More people experience this than they realize.
Grief can turn shared love into a contest over who has the right to mourn.
“Where Are You with Grief and love — what they share?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.