My sister and I have both noticed that we fall for people who need saving, just like our mom did, and we promised each other we'd call it out when we see the other one doing it again, but now she's three months into something that looks exactly like our pattern and I don't know how to keep my promise without losing her.
More people experience this than they realize.
The cost of loving someone includes witnessing them repeat the very patterns you've both sworn to break.
“Where Are You with Patterns in who we love?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.