My sister and I inherited our grandmother's house together and we can't agree on what to do with it — she wants to sell and I want to keep it in the family — but really we're grieving differently and the house has become the place we're putting all our feelings about loss and family and what we owe the past.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are trying to make a practical decision about something that holds all their love and loss, but grief makes different demands on different hearts.
“Where Are You with Desire and its changes over time?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.