My sister and I inherited our grandmother's house together and we can't agree on whether to sell it or keep it in the family, but really we're grieving differently and the house represents different things to each of us that we haven't been able to talk about directly.
More people experience this than they realize.
Objects carry the weight of relationship and memory, and practical decisions become impossible when we're holding different pieces of the same love.
“Where Are You with Pleasure and the Body in Love?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.