My sister and I were both raised to believe that putting ourselves first was selfish, and now we're adults who can't say no to anyone but we also resent each other for not protecting our own boundaries.
More people experience this than they realize.
Family patterns around self-sacrifice have created a dynamic where neither person can model healthy self-regard for the other.
“Where Are You with Self-love — what it actually means?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.