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Scenario

How siblings navigate inherited beliefs about selfishness

My sister and I were both raised to believe that putting ourselves first was selfish, and now we're adults who can't say no to anyone but we also resent each other for not protecting our own boundaries.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Family patterns around self-sacrifice have created a dynamic where neither person can model healthy self-regard for the other.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Self-love — what it actually means?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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