My teenage daughter and I used to be close but now every conversation turns into a fight about her choices and I can see her pulling away from me. We both want to connect but we've gotten stuck in this pattern where I worry and she rebels and neither of us knows how to break the cycle.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love is being expressed through control and resistance, creating the very distance both people fear most.
“Where Are You with Emotional Availability?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.