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When parents and teenagers lose their connection and everything makes it worse

My teenage daughter and I used to be close but this year everything I say seems to hurt her feelings or make her angry, and I can see her pulling away but every time I try to bridge the gap I seem to push her further and I don't know if this is normal or if I'm failing her.

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You're both reaching toward each other but speaking languages the other can't understand.

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